The Psychology of Winning 10 Qualities of a True Winner
Quality 1: Positive Self-Expectancy
"Life is a self fulfilling prophecy. True winners go into every event expecting to win."
What this means is that if you want to accomplish something in life you have to tell yourself that you will succeed. For example lets say you're playing a game of football with your friends and you want to win. What you have have to do is to tell yourself that you will win. This will increase your chances in succeeding. If won't always work but yo shouldn't have any doubt in you. Doubt will drag you down. There is no magic involved with this its all physiological. When telling your self that you will succeed your having the mindset of not failing and you will only be pushing yourself to win. If you try hard enough you will always succeed.
Quality 2: Positive Self Motivation
"True winners dig deep and find motivation inside themselves to get through that tough task or to learn a new skill."
What this means is that if you want to achieve a goal you need to find inspiration within yourself. By finding inspiration within yourself that it when you've already accomplished something. Don't rely on others to help because in this moment you need to help yourself. For example lets say that you wanna loose weight you have to find that motivation within yourself to accomplish your goal.
Quality 3: Positive self image
True winners are confident and view themselves as competent, valuable human beings.
What this means is that in order to be successful at anything you need to have confidence in order to achieve anything. You need to always tell you're self that your're going to win. Without having confidence you won't achieve anything. For example you want to learn a new sport but you don't think you can do it. That's the most important time to have self confidence. Remember that without having confidence you wont achieve anything.
Quality 4:Positive Self-Direction
You gotta have direction if you are going to go anywhere.
True winners know where they are going. Their sense of direction comes from the self and not from the outside influences like parents or friends.